So it gets worse his HER (spelt whore), is same age as me, lives a plane ride (emphasis on the ride) away and sure hes only been with her about 100 times in the past two years TWO YEARS jesus and he didnt lose weight  get a gold pendant, or even leather trousers. The problem is me and everyone else including our teenage kids think we are rock solid, how do I tell them, what happens next.......................